You Left Early: A True Story of Love and Alcohol

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As a composer, he lent airs and grace to numerous films, television dramas and plays. His tragedy was that he knew his alcoholism had blighted what he could have achieved without it - but his achievements were remarkable none the less. Not the least inspiring the devoted love and care of a rather extraordinary woman as creative as him.

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Effie's is an alcoholic her reasoning and excuses of why she drinks are well explained, her inadequate qualities make her seem very real. Although I did not warm to her, a few chapters in Effie's character develops, and I found myself understanding her. Yes, it’s embarrassing, painful, private stuff. But there are a million and a half people in the UK who are alcoholics, many with people who love them wishing to God that they weren’t. There’s no point writing about it if I’m not going to be honest. I’d like us all stop feeling ashamed about alcoholism, and to treat it as the disease it is. As a widow to that disease, I’d like us to admit how widespread it is. To help each other, openly. She is aghast when he writes of her as “my old friend” and describes breaking up with another woman as the “biggest mistake of my life”. Her first book, A Great Task of Happiness, was a biography of her grandmother Kathleen Scott, widow of Captain Scott of the Antarctic, published by Macmillan in 1995. [6] Then came three novels set in London and Egypt: Baby Love, Desiring Cairo and Tree of Pearls (Flamingo). Baby Love was listed for the Orange Prize for Fiction. [2] These were followed in 2002 by The Book of the Heart, a cultural history of the heart as it is seen through art, religion, love and anatomy. In 2007 she was a curatorial advisor for the Wellcome Foundation exhibition The Heart, which was inspired by her book. [7]Books held by any Surrey library can be requested at your local library or by using the online catalogue. Many requested items incur a reservation charge. How to request a title An extraordinarily candid bereavement memoir… As much as it’s an overwhelming love letter, Young’s book is also a sobering reminder of the devastating effects of alcoholism, not just on an individual’s life, but on everyone else around them’ Evening Standard Best Books Set in the 1920s — from Stories That Shimmer with Champagne and Social Change, to Rip-roaring Reads Covering Crime, Colonialism and Beyond.

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Bloody hell. It is an extraordinarily powerful and moving work - for all. Especially those of us who know alcoholics who can't not be that. An achingly beautiful book which I devoured in two sittings. Amazing' Emma ThompsonHer novel "Twelve Months and a Day" was published in the UK by Borough Press in June 2022, and by Putnam in the US in January 2023, when it was People Magazine's Book of the Week Most touching was his love of bird watching. Utterly sad was his father's phobia against travel which meant he never saw his son's various extraordinary triumphs, such as being awarded a double first at Oxford or his piano recitals at Wigmore Hall. We all need our triumphs witnessed by those we love - or they don't feel completely real. He had been two and a half years sober with AA, relieved and really working at rebuilding, when he was diagnosed with throat cancer. A week before his surgery he proposed to me. He stayed sober through the illness, the surgery, the loss of speech and the ability to eat, the chemo. And he told me that he’d rather go through cancer again, and the ferocious treatment it entailed, than be an active drinking alcoholic again. Because with cancer the enemy is clear; with addiction the enemy is you.

You Left Early: A True Story of Love and Alcohol by Louisa

Bloody hell. It is an extraordinarily powerful and moving work – for all. Especially those of us who know alcoholics who can’t not be that. An achingly beautiful book which I devoured in two sittings. Amazing’ Emma Thompson If the story of their relationship is occasionally repetitive, that captures the nature of alcoholism and reflects Louisa’s outpouring of still-raw emotion. She has contributed to various anthologies, including I Am Heathcliff (ed. Kate Mosse), Underground; Tales for London (ed. Ann Bissell) and A Love Letter to Europe (Coronet). He looked like a Franz Liszt painted by El Greco, or a very old candle, or someone dug out of a peat bog where everything had kept growing on after his death. This is a heart-breaking story which really pulls at your heartstrings knowing what emotional turmoil she went through and what she did for the man she loved so much. It has really opened my eyes to the journey that people suffering with alcoholism go on and how this has a profound and devastating impact on those around them. This book will stay with me for a long time.However, by now his lifestyle had taken a terrible toll on his health and the couple’s contentment proved to be short-lived. But an essential read for those of us who know, have known or indeed will know an addict during the course of their life. I am not able to give a positive review for this book at all and gave up half way through as did not connect at all to the main characters and actually really disliked both of them intensely. As someone who lives with an alcoholic and the disruption and chaos it causes for the family I am afraid I had little and no sympathy for the characters.

You Left Early: A True Story of Love and Alcohol

An important book, one that demands we rethink a culture of blame around alcoholism … moving, harrowing and tirelessly empathetic’ Daily Express A heart-breaking memoir that takes you on an emotional journey with love and resilience leading the way Young's work has been nominated and shortlisted for prizes that include the Orange Prize for Fiction, the Costa Book of the Year, the Costa Novel of the Year, the Galaxy Audiobook of the Year Prize, which it won, the Booktrust Teenage Prize, the Carnegie Medal, the International Dublin Literary Award, the Wellcome Book Prize and the Folio Prize. It has been chosen by the Richard and Judy Book Club.

The Sunday after Robert died,I went, nervous, shaky, and alone, to his regular AA meeting. Two people there spoke about doubts they were having, saying that the people around them weren’t being supportive, theywere bored with their problems, that theydidn’tknow why they bothered coming to meetings, that nobody cared. At the end I was allowed to speak. Rather incoherently, I told them of Robert’s death, and said that even if they didn’t feel great about their own recovery today they had helped in his. Even though he had died. I told them how much what they did had helped me, and Robert’s son, even though theydidn’tknow we existed. I told them that there were thousands—millions?—of us at home, who they probably never thought of, but who valued AA hugely, that their contribution was priceless, because it supported not just the people in the meeting, but us at home as well, and I thanked them. And Ithank all of you too, who are dealing with your problem,who are reading this today. Had me weeping into my pillow… Anyone who has ever loved an addict will recognise most of what she has to say’ iNews Young was educated at Paddington's Hallfield Primary School, St Paul's Girls' School, Westminster School and Trinity College, Cambridge, where she read history. [2] [5] Career [ edit ] Robert was charismatic, a playful character described by a close friend as “extraordinary fun, because what he really loved was misbehaving, in every way he could possibly think of”.